I am completely solvent — indeed, I pay over my share — so this is definitely not a sugar daddy arrangement. He would come once, and then pronounce his dick out of commission until tomorrow. But, as the memes say: We also had different ideas of what qualifies as fun. If you are just entering the most productive time of your career and your partner is ready to retire, how do you both manage those differences?
At this point in life, it is what it is. If he's into you, trust me, he'll respond. Say hello. Follow us.
The more I talk and write about my age the more I find people making false assumptions about what it means to be gay and in the middle ages.