Consume high amounts of fiber. When I go hard, I use silicone lube. I always have to make sure things are good down there before having sex. Not only is getting fisted a sensory overload, but it requires more trust and vulnerability than perhaps any other sex act with the exception of various kink and BDSM scenes. Most of them are too hard, and many of them have a rough, porous texture. This works for most guys too, although douching bulbs and enemas will not clean your ass as deeply and thoroughly as hoses and shower attachments can. As with everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men.
Go slowly and use lots of lube.
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There is a caveat to this trick: Latex allergies are more common than you might realize. It is probably not the best thing to do, but neither is excessive cleaning or really rough sex, which can cause hemorrhoids and fissures and other ailments. Again, fiber will aid the healing process of both these common ailments that befall bottoms. You should never rush the cleaning process, especially if you are a beginner.
Since I am having regular bareback sex, I get tested every month, no exceptions. Most of the time he has to help them understand how the body works and what it needs to enjoy anal sex consistently. Barebacking is in, and the vast majority of homos I know do it. When I go hard, I use silicone lube. There is this absurd idea that bottoms do not do any of the work in sex, which is false. I love my butt, I love men, and I love men being in my butt.